Innovative Retreat Strengthens Family Bonds - We Raise Foundation

Innovative Retreat Strengthens Family Bonds

Photo of Isaac and his MomIsaac fled his home country without his family and arrived in the U.S. in November 2023 with a dream of a better life. The 16-year-old was eventually referred to Lutheran Social Services of the National Capital Area (LSSNCA), which helped him resettle with a foster mother. Although their relationship has been a positive one, his foster mom wanted to deepen the bond, so they signed up for the “Harmony Heights: Elevating the Strengths of Unaccompanied Refugee Minors (URM) and their Resource Family” retreat, hosted by LSSNCA.

“Sometimes families get bogged down with the daily tasks and physical needs of the family, and they don’t have time to work on the relationship,” said Brittany Livingston, director of Foster Care Services for LSSNCA. “The goal of the retreat is to strengthen the family as a unit with activities aimed at developing trust and appreciation for each other’s differences—whether it’s food, music, or culture. This is a great opportunity to add new, fun core memories for the youth whose many memories are rooted in trauma.”

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Brittany Livingston

We Raise Foundation awarded Livingston a $15,000 Emerging Leader Grant for her innovative work to empower URMs and their resource families. During the two-year partnership, she will participate in various leadership development opportunities to equip and strengthen her leadership.

“It’s an honor to receive the We Raise grant, which will help LSSNCA provide resources to build resilient individuals and families,” Livingston said. “I feel like I’m doing what I’m supposed to do. I grew up serving at my church by cooking and feeding the homeless every Saturday morning. I’m humbled to continue to be in a profession that focuses on advocating for others. I’m excited to have opportunities that We Raise is offering to help me grow as a leader.”

Part of the grant money helped launch the inaugural three-day overnight retreat in July 2024, which included group sessions, team competitions, and obstacle courses. The retreat kicked off with a campfire on the first night, where Isaac and his peers shared chants and dances from their culture, such as salsa and merengue.

“We had participants from different parts of the world, from Afghanistan to Latin America. Everyone started joining in and learning the new dances and songs. It was a great way to showcase each other’s culture, break down barriers, and build a support system with other families,” Livingston said.

Photo of working on BookDuring the camp, participants were also encouraged to create a visual family book chronicling the youth’s journey to the United States.

“I think this activity was hard for Isaac because he didn’t want to be reminded of his past. His foster mom also crafted a 15-page book depicting what she thought his journey was like and the joy he has brought into her life,” Livingston recalled. “When they shared on the final day of camp, there was not a dry eye among the group. Isaac was gushing with pride.”

Livingston is grateful for We Raise donors’ commitment to investing in programs, like the Harmony Heights retreat, that promote family unity and stability.

“Without focusing on interpersonal relationships, families get disrupted, and the youth get lost,” said Livingston. “These youth came to America eager for opportunity, eager to engage, eager to get started on a new life. We Raise’s support allows us to help URM and their resource families to navigate a new life where they can thrive.”

Your faithful support of We Raise helps equip Livingston and LSSNCA to maximize their impact, strengthen family bonds, and provide unaccompanied minors with essential skills to lead more abundant, productive lives in a new country.

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